The Dangers of Idealizing Personality Type

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on April 15, 2018

On the 16-type scale, I type as an INFJ. This is one of eight introverted types, and it’s not a common type of Introvert. Yet do an internet search on “INFJ,” and you’ll see that it’s promoted as the holy grail of personality types. The way some commentators describe my personality, you’d think it transcends humanity itself!

It’s not just INFJ, either. Many types have this hyperbolic appeal to them. It’s their relative rarity that gives them their appeal.

Does Age Matter More When You’re An Introvert?

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on April 01, 2018

In many cultures around the world, youth is associated with energy and passion. Reflective and calm personality traits are associated with being older and wiser. We are comfortable with these stigmas; however, we are slightly less comfortable when someone flips the switch.

How to Succeed as an Introverted Trainer

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on February 20, 2018

You’re telling the room: any type can do anything. Personality theory is about understanding yourself better, playing to your strengths and broadening your horizons. It was never intended to pigeonhole anyone.

On the inside, you’re thinking. How can I, someone with a preference for Introversion, train groups of people as my job? My energy comes from in-depth, one-on-one conversations, not noise-filled, overstimulating group work. I’m much happier working and spending time alone.

6 Ways to Thrive as a Sensitive and Ambitious Introvert

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on February 11, 2018

Are you a hard worker who feels like your work regularly goes unnoticed or underappreciated? Do you set many goals but keep most of them to yourself for fear of judgment and failure? Are you desperate for success but get exhausted just thinking about attempting the traditional routes to getting there — networking and ladder climbing, among others? If you found yourself nodding along to each of these questions, you may be a sensitiveandambitious Introvert.

Categories:INFJ,INFP,INTJ,INTP,ISFJ,ISFP

你应该开始什么业务,基于你的珀耳斯onality Type: Part 1 - Rationals and Idealists

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on January 22, 2018

If you believe what you read, then running your own business is an option reserved for just a few personalities.ENTPs(Steve Jobs),ENFPs(Arianna Huffington),ENTJs(Warren Buffet) andINTJs(Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg) are hailed as the “street smart” types most likely to do well out of entrepreneurship. The thread here is the bias towards Intuition over Sensing – a tendency to focus on the future and take risks.

Why Do Intuitive Introverts Know So Much But Achieve So Little?

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on December 10, 2017

I love to learn. In fact, when I took theStrengthsFinder 2.0assessment earlier this year, Learner was listed as my top strength. I can spend hours at a time, days even, reading books about psychology and personal development and exploring inspiring ideas. I crave solitude because it means more time to feed my mind new information.

Categories:INFJ,INFP,INTJ,INTP

What’s the Formula for a Satisfying INFJ Career?

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on November 19, 2017

Most INFJs long for a career that lines up with their personal vision and profound sense of mission. They want to employ their insight into the human mind as well as their abundant creativity to make the world a better place.

For eight years, I've taught elementary school. It's been a good fit for me in many ways, but it’s also been challenging. I work with people all day long, teach the same content every year, and have to manage 25 students from 9:00 a.m. to 3:15 p.m. By the end of each day, I’m physically exhausted.

Category:INFJ

9 Essential Self-Care Steps for the Over-Committed Idealist

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on November 12, 2017

Are you passionate about self-improvement? Are you always striving to reach your own potential, but care just as much about the personal development of everyone else? Creative, caring and curious, you will go to any length to find your purpose in life and help others find theirs. If this describes you, then you are an Idealist.

Can NF Types Excel in Business?

Clinically Reviewed bySteven Melendy, PsyD.on August 07, 2017

If you’re an NF type, like I am, then you’ve probably seen all the articles that recommend we pursue careers in health care, counseling, or other selfless, “people-helping” fields. That advice works out just great for some people.

But what if you’re an NF who wants to excel in business. Is it possible?

As an INFJ with a marketing degree and about four years’ worth of business experience, I’ve struggled with this question a lot.

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