Everyone has the I am Me and this is how I feel as an extroverted ENFJ We have to curb it all the time to make space for other people...
you honestly think we like waiting two weeks for you to process? Nope. I don't like waiting two hours. But for some reason introverts can't see that. It's like (enter dramatic hand over forehead) I've been to the grocery and now I must sequester in my room so I can heal... don't intrude upon my boundary (dramatic sigh)
是的……至少对我来说作为一个person I don't think that introverts realize Extroverts don't wanna deal with you like that either so the should is often softened cause we know you can't take honest criticism either... so we're like ok you should care about others when your task list hasn't been that big of a deal...
and the implied truth is... cause as an extrovert I have. I woulda loved to be self indulgent too after every task but I am not an island. I have todo things call people back etc... because I am aware.
in fact I don't think introversion and extroversion are different in feeling they seem to just be different in awareness.
I am aware others need me to call them to stay friends for example. Not doing it or "half ass calling it in" is very offensive to me as a person because I'm like what's broken in you that you don't get that you have to do this for others!
That's right! Other people matter!
or did you think those extroverts were just handing out free samples of love? And you had no obligation to them but to play premadona when they need you?
As an extrovert I'm giving the introverts in my life some rope and letting them decide their fate. I think I've been making too many people feel good while they just think about boundries and narcissistic thoughts. And don't have awareness one of how they use people.
Smh.
its actually horrifying to realize how self focused that is.
Megs (not verified)says...
Everyone has the I am Me and this is how I feel as an extroverted ENFJ We have to curb it all the time to make space for other people...
you honestly think we like waiting two weeks for you to process? Nope. I don't like waiting two hours. But for some reason introverts can't see that. It's like (enter dramatic hand over forehead) I've been to the grocery and now I must sequester in my room so I can heal... don't intrude upon my boundary (dramatic sigh)
是的……至少对我来说作为一个person I don't think that introverts realize Extroverts don't wanna deal with you like that either so the should is often softened cause we know you can't take honest criticism either... so we're like ok you should care about others when your task list hasn't been that big of a deal...
and the implied truth is... cause as an extrovert I have. I woulda loved to be self indulgent too after every task but I am not an island. I have todo things call people back etc... because I am aware.
in fact I don't think introversion and extroversion are different in feeling they seem to just be different in awareness.
I am aware others need me to call them to stay friends for example. Not doing it or "half ass calling it in" is very offensive to me as a person because I'm like what's broken in you that you don't get that you have to do this for others!
That's right!
Other people matter!
or did you think those extroverts were just handing out free samples of love? And you had no obligation to them but to play premadona when they need you?
As an extrovert I'm giving the introverts in my life some rope and letting them decide their fate. I think I've been making too many people feel good while they just think about boundries and narcissistic thoughts. And don't have awareness one of how they use people.
Smh.
its actually horrifying to realize how self focused that is.