I am an ENFJ and I am currently dating an INTJ! He is calm, direct, thoughtful, sweet, and very loving. The way he views the world is intoxicating. He seems to appreciate my social nature, and he pushes himself to get out there with me as much as he can. He talks through everything with me, and listens when I tell him my perspective. I've never had anyone value what I had to say. I've had a lot of users in my life who sucked the joy right out of me. I feel similarly about the desire of finding something permanent. I stuck it out with people way more than they deserved. When I chose to meet him, it wasn't because I was consciously trying to choose differently than I had before. I wanted to wing it. To get out there without thinking too much, and he was so eloquent in his profile online, I felt he would offer interesting conversation. Over the past 8 months, I have fallen deeply in love with him. I feel like this love is healthy. I am still trying not to evaluate the future or its potentially negative possibilities. I want to live in what we have now, and cultivate it. My dream is that the future will look like I've always hoped. Full of love and trust. Full of fulfilled dreams and happiness. I know I'm whimsical in nature, but I so desperately wanted my life to be filled with light and happiness. And I have began to see the possibilities with such a quiet and kind person. I would have never imagined! Such is the way with life though! Loved this post, and thanks for reading this!
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I am an ENFJ and I am currently dating an INTJ! He is calm, direct, thoughtful, sweet, and very loving. The way he views the world is intoxicating. He seems to appreciate my social nature, and he pushes himself to get out there with me as much as he can. He talks through everything with me, and listens when I tell him my perspective. I've never had anyone value what I had to say. I've had a lot of users in my life who sucked the joy right out of me. I feel similarly about the desire of finding something permanent. I stuck it out with people way more than they deserved. When I chose to meet him, it wasn't because I was consciously trying to choose differently than I had before. I wanted to wing it. To get out there without thinking too much, and he was so eloquent in his profile online, I felt he would offer interesting conversation. Over the past 8 months, I have fallen deeply in love with him. I feel like this love is healthy. I am still trying not to evaluate the future or its potentially negative possibilities. I want to live in what we have now, and cultivate it. My dream is that the future will look like I've always hoped. Full of love and trust. Full of fulfilled dreams and happiness. I know I'm whimsical in nature, but I so desperately wanted my life to be filled with light and happiness. And I have began to see the possibilities with such a quiet and kind person. I would have never imagined! Such is the way with life though! Loved this post, and thanks for reading this!