I am an ENFJ female after 2.5 years I'm still with my INTJ male. It's crazy how I can relate to this article. I was tired of waiting for love so he and I decided to be casual friends with benefits and even though we agreed to see other ppl too we never did we always wanted to be together. It took him a while to express in words hahah he loved me since I'm better at expressing emotions in words, but unlike past relationships I knew he loved me even before he verbalized it I always felt it. We still do almost everything together and want to be together. I'm the social butterfly in our industry and he says that he if Happy letting me be the star and him being in the background letting me shine. He enjoys my go getter attitude and my opinion. He says the most attractive quality for him has always been my brain. We balance out each other's weaknesses. I am more feelings and he's more logical and numbers But his love of discovering new facts and always wan to learn is attractive. I have gotten him to enjoy and try outside activities. We don't argue often but as per articles when we do argue it can be explosive. He hates when I use the silent treatment he wants to know what is going on in my mind. He would rather I tell him what I'm thinking in the moment versus letting it marinate and become bigger later on. When I can finally express myself clearly he understands where I'm coming from. Anyone in an ENFJ-INTJ relationship should see the article
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I am an ENFJ female after 2.5 years I'm still with my INTJ male. It's crazy how I can relate to this article. I was tired of waiting for love so he and I decided to be casual friends with benefits and even though we agreed to see other ppl too we never did we always wanted to be together. It took him a while to express in words hahah he loved me since I'm better at expressing emotions in words, but unlike past relationships I knew he loved me even before he verbalized it I always felt it. We still do almost everything together and want to be together. I'm the social butterfly in our industry and he says that he if Happy letting me be the star and him being in the background letting me shine. He enjoys my go getter attitude and my opinion. He says the most attractive quality for him has always been my brain. We balance out each other's weaknesses. I am more feelings and he's more logical and numbers But his love of discovering new facts and always wan to learn is attractive. I have gotten him to enjoy and try outside activities. We don't argue often but as per articles when we do argue it can be explosive. He hates when I use the silent treatment he wants to know what is going on in my mind. He would rather I tell him what I'm thinking in the moment versus letting it marinate and become bigger later on. When I can finally express myself clearly he understands where I'm coming from. Anyone in an ENFJ-INTJ relationship should see the article
https://thoughtcatalog.com/will-buchanan/2015/06/9-reasons-why-intjs-and-enfjs-belong-together/