INTP is the total meaning of a VERY confusing friend. They sometimes become so negative that I don't know what the hell is happening with them. Or is it my fault as INTJ?
INTP said I had breached the forbidden line, but the INTP did not tell me anything about the line when I already said that I don't know what the heck the person mentioned.
I had been evading all of the forbidden acts the person told me, yet the INTP said I had breached it. I also not familiar with how INTP keeping informations so as usual I asked the INTP question for discussion, but this time the INTP suddenly said that I destroyed every data her mind had been built like a solid rock, and now she must searched for every pieces of information again.
The INTP acted so confusing, darkly emotional, sarcastic, mean, self-criticizing, and sometimes too irrational. The person is too suspicious for anything, reading between the lines, and telling me everyone is disappointed. Sometimes they are too emotional, and I don't know why. They can't be reached when in Emo rage, suddenly missing like a wind with no reason why my chat ignored, and this particular trait is a very damaging trait for a relationship.
This INTP accusing me had hidden agenda by befriending her, as in her mind; an INTJ like me that is soaring high over everyone and respected like an eagle is not genuine, while she is like a fish on the pond that is susceptible to being prey of me. Idk why she thinks like this, but she had been bullied by everyone in her life, including her mom. I thought that being NT makes her more rational to accept life challenges, but noooo. She complained all the time and poured all her negativity on me. Apparently only INTJ and ENTJ had the capability of rationality of accepting life.
As I open up to INTP, the person thought me as being whiny, while all this time, I only joking around as I finally warmed up to someone. INTP can't get the joke and then complained why I'm being whiny. Seriously, INTP is so so confusing and tend to making me angry for no reason. I even considering to doorslam the person now because I don't like being ignored all the time and only accused bad things that I don't do as INTJ. It's enough that I tend to see myself as a bad person, now this INTP telling me I'm bad with no logical reason. Now I must not tell her my problems as she will see it a childish act? What is the point of one-sided relationship like that? I give but I required something in return too. INTP can't see whether someone is genuine or not, so sceptical, and they will drain your willpower to succeed.
So my advice for you fellow INTJs who want to be succeeded in life (in age 20 or above), do not befriend INTP. They will only loaded you with negative crap, and you will get nothing in return (after a long time investing on this relationship you will realize this) beside their occasional nagging to waste some of your money that you had been investing for the future.
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INTP is the total meaning of a VERY confusing friend. They sometimes become so negative that I don't know what the hell is happening with them. Or is it my fault as INTJ?
INTP said I had breached the forbidden line, but the INTP did not tell me anything about the line when I already said that I don't know what the heck the person mentioned.
I had been evading all of the forbidden acts the person told me, yet the INTP said I had breached it. I also not familiar with how INTP keeping informations so as usual I asked the INTP question for discussion, but this time the INTP suddenly said that I destroyed every data her mind had been built like a solid rock, and now she must searched for every pieces of information again.
The INTP acted so confusing, darkly emotional, sarcastic, mean, self-criticizing, and sometimes too irrational. The person is too suspicious for anything, reading between the lines, and telling me everyone is disappointed. Sometimes they are too emotional, and I don't know why. They can't be reached when in Emo rage, suddenly missing like a wind with no reason why my chat ignored, and this particular trait is a very damaging trait for a relationship.
This INTP accusing me had hidden agenda by befriending her, as in her mind; an INTJ like me that is soaring high over everyone and respected like an eagle is not genuine, while she is like a fish on the pond that is susceptible to being prey of me. Idk why she thinks like this, but she had been bullied by everyone in her life, including her mom. I thought that being NT makes her more rational to accept life challenges, but noooo. She complained all the time and poured all her negativity on me. Apparently only INTJ and ENTJ had the capability of rationality of accepting life.
As I open up to INTP, the person thought me as being whiny, while all this time, I only joking around as I finally warmed up to someone. INTP can't get the joke and then complained why I'm being whiny. Seriously, INTP is so so confusing and tend to making me angry for no reason. I even considering to doorslam the person now because I don't like being ignored all the time and only accused bad things that I don't do as INTJ. It's enough that I tend to see myself as a bad person, now this INTP telling me I'm bad with no logical reason. Now I must not tell her my problems as she will see it a childish act? What is the point of one-sided relationship like that? I give but I required something in return too. INTP can't see whether someone is genuine or not, so sceptical, and they will drain your willpower to succeed.
So my advice for you fellow INTJs who want to be succeeded in life (in age 20 or above), do not befriend INTP. They will only loaded you with negative crap, and you will get nothing in return (after a long time investing on this relationship you will realize this) beside their occasional nagging to waste some of your money that you had been investing for the future.