This article can be hard to accept because as an INTJ I am driven to solve problems and help people on their journey. My intentions are definitely not for power or to prove I am superior. They are just to help my friends. However, I have noticed that I am not as self aware as I could be and that perhaps I just lack the skills to listen and ask questions and be supportive without offering a few, in my mind, great solutions. I really think a couple of my friends are kind of tired of me coming up with solutions for them. And that's why I read this article. Just looking for ways to communicate with my friends in a way that is better for them. I am not offended by this article. I think we just have to accept that this is one of our best/worst traits and be more aware. Thanks!
Janet Aram (not verified)says...
This article can be hard to accept because as an INTJ I am driven to solve problems and help people on their journey. My intentions are definitely not for power or to prove I am superior. They are just to help my friends. However, I have noticed that I am not as self aware as I could be and that perhaps I just lack the skills to listen and ask questions and be supportive without offering a few, in my mind, great solutions. I really think a couple of my friends are kind of tired of me coming up with solutions for them. And that's why I read this article. Just looking for ways to communicate with my friends in a way that is better for them. I am not offended by this article. I think we just have to accept that this is one of our best/worst traits and be more aware. Thanks!