There are many more factors that play in personality compatibility than the 'traits and types". In marriage there are moral and religious beliefs that modify and influence how much and how to compromise, love , sacrifice and be humble. Forgiving, kind, patient, etc... I tend to believe our personality traits do not change over time and may be ever. However time make us learn how to live in a different way. For example I was born in a cosmopolitan city, would suffocate without culture a library and airport! Life journey s brought me progressively from a large city to a medium size city but with a lot of culture then to a medium size town without culture then to a small town with no culture. It was Hell and torture. Now I am not young anymore, I do not want or feel driving in a large city where the speed limit sign is insignificant. I feel sad that I missed who I was but I learned to aoorecitiate the other way of doing things. In marriage, we give of ourselves and we die for each other. Discovering each other and helping the other to enjoy being is a joy. So compatibility in the morals and values of marriage supercede our different personality traits.., if one has both compatibilities then... that s easy life.... less chance to grow in love.... though still a paradise.
Michel (not verified)says...
I agree with you 1000%!
There are many more factors that play in personality compatibility than the 'traits and types". In marriage there are moral and religious beliefs that modify and influence how much and how to compromise, love , sacrifice and be humble. Forgiving, kind, patient, etc... I tend to believe our personality traits do not change over time and may be ever. However time make us learn how to live in a different way. For example I was born in a cosmopolitan city, would suffocate without culture a library and airport! Life journey s brought me progressively from a large city to a medium size city but with a lot of culture then to a medium size town without culture then to a small town with no culture. It was Hell and torture. Now I am not young anymore, I do not want or feel driving in a large city where the speed limit sign is insignificant. I feel sad that I missed who I was but I learned to aoorecitiate the other way of doing things. In marriage, we give of ourselves and we die for each other. Discovering each other and helping the other to enjoy being is a joy. So compatibility in the morals and values of marriage supercede our different personality traits.., if one has both compatibilities then... that s easy life.... less chance to grow in love.... though still a paradise.