As an ENTP who struggles with relationships, I have come to believe that all that matters in finding a suitable, long lasting relationship is someone who has looked at their shit, and is able to continue developing. And I agree, the person must be "somebody who is willing to grow with them and take personal responsibility for themselves." I think once someone of any type has really has done sufficient personal development work will be great relationship material, although I hadn't considered the difference between an unhealthy and healthy INFJ. (Side note, I do seem to attract a lot of INFJ friends...).
You are right, we are some of the most open minded types of the 16 (so open that we struggle to stick to an opinion or perspective, especially if our partner wants something else. We can adapt too far if we aren't healthy).
So thank you Thomas for sticking up for ENTP's! Samantha
Samanthasays...
As an ENTP who struggles with relationships, I have come to believe that all that matters in finding a suitable, long lasting relationship is someone who has looked at their shit, and is able to continue developing. And I agree, the person must be "somebody who is willing to grow with them and take personal responsibility for themselves." I think once someone of any type has really has done sufficient personal development work will be great relationship material, although I hadn't considered the difference between an unhealthy and healthy INFJ. (Side note, I do seem to attract a lot of INFJ friends...).
You are right, we are some of the most open minded types of the 16 (so open that we struggle to stick to an opinion or perspective, especially if our partner wants something else. We can adapt too far if we aren't healthy).
So thank you Thomas for sticking up for ENTP's!
Samantha