I Think I am more of a mature, and well developed INFJ with high Ti because I'm a 5w6 and My husband an ENTP 6w7. Our compatibilaity is almost perfect but not entirley, obviously no relationship is without conflict I understand that now.
I am more of an INFJ that is close in personality to INTJ, and my husband in more an ENTP who is close in personlity with INTP sometimes, we have a balance of us being both intoverted and extorverted (ambiverted).
Here are the Pros:
1- We can discuss anything and everything. His Te compliments my Ti very well; we have topics of interest in common in politics, history, theology and our general outlook on life.
2- Neither of us are callous human beings and we both have a good balance of compassion.
3- Sex is amazing, since I'm a Type 5 I could safley say that I am a more adventrous INFJ in this department.
4- We know how to spend time together as much as time apart, because a good relationship requires both parties to have their own interests to keep everything exicting.
Cons:
1- When we argue, we can both be very harsh to each other, and neither of us wants to back down because we are stubborn; however we have figuered a way to discuss things more openly then let it become ugly and us still being mad at each other for a long time.
2- He hates that I keep myself gaurded sometimes, because he likes to get it out in the open and I like to process it before saying anything but he has since understood that this is my way, and he should give me time to open up to him because I'm not hiding anything from him.
3- He can be distant which I hate, and so I in turn have to tell him to snap out of it and be with me.
In conclusion, we do have a good marriage for better or for worse, and I have doorslammed him into our marriage in the past because we had a rough patch for about a Year, then we later re-connected and worked things out.
He is more comfortable about his Fe now in his 30s, and I in my Mid 20s am comfortable with my Ti and conflict because it is not a big deal since issues do have a way of working themselves out. ( Also, disclaimer I mean the type of conflict that is not abusive or toxic).
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I Think I am more of a mature, and well developed INFJ with high Ti because I'm a 5w6 and My husband an ENTP 6w7. Our compatibilaity is almost perfect but not entirley, obviously no relationship is without conflict I understand that now.
I am more of an INFJ that is close in personality to INTJ, and my husband in more an ENTP who is close in personlity with INTP sometimes, we have a balance of us being both intoverted and extorverted (ambiverted).
Here are the Pros:
1- We can discuss anything and everything. His Te compliments my Ti very well; we have topics of interest in common in politics, history, theology and our general outlook on life.
2- Neither of us are callous human beings and we both have a good balance of compassion.
3- Sex is amazing, since I'm a Type 5 I could safley say that I am a more adventrous INFJ in this department.
4- We know how to spend time together as much as time apart, because a good relationship requires both parties to have their own interests to keep everything exicting.
Cons:
1- When we argue, we can both be very harsh to each other, and neither of us wants to back down because we are stubborn; however we have figuered a way to discuss things more openly then let it become ugly and us still being mad at each other for a long time.
2- He hates that I keep myself gaurded sometimes, because he likes to get it out in the open and I like to process it before saying anything but he has since understood that this is my way, and he should give me time to open up to him because I'm not hiding anything from him.
3- He can be distant which I hate, and so I in turn have to tell him to snap out of it and be with me.
In conclusion, we do have a good marriage for better or for worse, and I have doorslammed him into our marriage in the past because we had a rough patch for about a Year, then we later re-connected and worked things out.
He is more comfortable about his Fe now in his 30s, and I in my Mid 20s am comfortable with my Ti and conflict because it is not a big deal since issues do have a way of working themselves out. ( Also, disclaimer I mean the type of conflict that is not abusive or toxic).