I met this same sex ENTP at work and she's the first ENTP I've come acrossed. I'm usually very easily attracted to ENFPs so it was very interesting to me how I'm just as easily attracted to this ENTP girl, but in a different way. I found ENFPs effortlessly charming and fun to be with. But with this ENTP, I found myself wanting to cover for her imperfections (?). I talk more when she's around and constantly make sarcastic criticisms about her but she does not take offend at all, and that in turn made me open up so much quicker and easier.
I really thought I could let this person into my inner circle but unfortunately I'm just too easily offended, I guess. I've always found her to lack empathy but I understood that her actions and words do not come from a bad place. That is until there was this specific thing I said I would be really mad if she does it, and she did it anyway to satisfy her own curiosity. She gave a half hearted apology and I was furious. I realised that this person does not know when to take things seriously. Because she was not offended by any of my criticisms, she also did not care to take them to heart or think of them as constructive.
I couldn't see how an extreme overthinker like me could ever get along with such an unempathetic person again and I did what I did best, cutting people off. What's funny is she doesn't even realise that I've stopped talking to her or even look her in the eye ever since.
INFJBEAR (not verified)says...
I met this same sex ENTP at work and she's the first ENTP I've come acrossed. I'm usually very easily attracted to ENFPs so it was very interesting to me how I'm just as easily attracted to this ENTP girl, but in a different way. I found ENFPs effortlessly charming and fun to be with. But with this ENTP, I found myself wanting to cover for her imperfections (?). I talk more when she's around and constantly make sarcastic criticisms about her but she does not take offend at all, and that in turn made me open up so much quicker and easier.
I really thought I could let this person into my inner circle but unfortunately I'm just too easily offended, I guess. I've always found her to lack empathy but I understood that her actions and words do not come from a bad place. That is until there was this specific thing I said I would be really mad if she does it, and she did it anyway to satisfy her own curiosity. She gave a half hearted apology and I was furious. I realised that this person does not know when to take things seriously. Because she was not offended by any of my criticisms, she also did not care to take them to heart or think of them as constructive.
I couldn't see how an extreme overthinker like me could ever get along with such an unempathetic person again and I did what I did best, cutting people off. What's funny is she doesn't even realise that I've stopped talking to her or even look her in the eye ever since.