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It is incredibly judgmental and completely inconsiderate about they experience of the other persons involved. "They like my ideas so much that they constantly want to discuss with me although I myself feel so tired."

It usually is the INFJ that cannot tolerate people having opinions that seem at a first glance to contradict their values and it then usually also is the INFJ that feels the need to convince the other person to see things in the same way. INFJ are constantly on the quest to improve the world in the way they think it should be improved. They forget that values are subjective and that their good is not neccessarily the good of someone else. I think in INFJ it is an important part of their maturing path that they need to understand that their morals are not neccessarily the right ones although they might FEEL right.

If they don't, they turn into terrible narcissists because they loose empathy in their projections of how an ideal wolrd should look like and by that they forget that people are people. They then act like god-like creatures that have forgotten that hukans are humans and punish and fight them in wrath.

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