I've dated an INFJ and have an INFJ sister, and tbh this sounds like a textbook INFP.
I dated an INFP that had exactly all these problems and was too passive to change anything about himself. He'd rather mope. All the INFJ I know are too proactive to stay that way for long. Are you certain you're referring to them?
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I've dated an INFJ and have an INFJ sister, and tbh this sounds like a textbook INFP.
I dated an INFP that had exactly all these problems and was too passive to change anything about himself. He'd rather mope. All the INFJ I know are too proactive to stay that way for long. Are you certain you're referring to them?