I have to disagree. What you're describing sounds much more like an INFP.
When someone expresses an opinion that contradicts my values, I find it very intriguing. At worst, I might be slightly more skeptical than I typically would be? But it makes for colorful conversation and I'm genuinely curious about their reasoning. A good opportunity for intellectual growth.
Also, that's the thing about INFJs. We don't base arguments off of how we 'feel' about things. How one feels about a particular thing is often affected by frivolous details. Such as the weather, or the themes being explored in a TV show that one is currently watching. How an INFJ actually 'feels' about something is often irrelevant. It's more about cold inductive perception, than it is about anything else.
And when someone won't stop enthusiastically prompting you to continue a conversation, literally for hours...? I think it's extremely unreasonable to claim that a person is narcissistic for becoming fatigued by that. In fact, the only reason it's even an issue for the INFJ, is because the INFJ is a people-pleaser who will keep going long after they wish to stop. It isn't an issue of narcissism..., it's simply an issue of having healthy boundaries. ?♀️
Lolly Poppy (not verified)says...
I have to disagree. What you're describing sounds much more like an INFP.
When someone expresses an opinion that contradicts my values, I find it very intriguing. At worst, I might be slightly more skeptical than I typically would be? But it makes for colorful conversation and I'm genuinely curious about their reasoning. A good opportunity for intellectual growth.
Also, that's the thing about INFJs. We don't base arguments off of how we 'feel' about things. How one feels about a particular thing is often affected by frivolous details. Such as the weather, or the themes being explored in a TV show that one is currently watching. How an INFJ actually 'feels' about something is often irrelevant. It's more about cold inductive perception, than it is about anything else.
And when someone won't stop enthusiastically prompting you to continue a conversation, literally for hours...? I think it's extremely unreasonable to claim that a person is narcissistic for becoming fatigued by that. In fact, the only reason it's even an issue for the INFJ, is because the INFJ is a people-pleaser who will keep going long after they wish to stop. It isn't an issue of narcissism..., it's simply an issue of having healthy boundaries. ?♀️