Coming from an INFJ, many people do struggle with narcissists being higher authorities as children, but I also feel that dealing with that type of person could also be what forms your personality type depending on how you deal with it as a child. As an INFJ, I was raised by a narcissist and it still affects me today. Because of this, I have to watch myself and make sure that I am not putting my parents actions into my own parental tendancies. I definetly see how we might come off as a narcissistic but I also feel like the majority of us might've had to deal with that as children and that's why, on the outside, we might come off in that way.
*(Just a theory based on some of the comments and my personal experience. Please don't take offense.)
Rhysand (not verified)says...
Coming from an INFJ, many people do struggle with narcissists being higher authorities as children, but I also feel that dealing with that type of person could also be what forms your personality type depending on how you deal with it as a child. As an INFJ, I was raised by a narcissist and it still affects me today. Because of this, I have to watch myself and make sure that I am not putting my parents actions into my own parental tendancies. I definetly see how we might come off as a narcissistic but I also feel like the majority of us might've had to deal with that as children and that's why, on the outside, we might come off in that way.
*(Just a theory based on some of the comments and my personal experience. Please don't take offense.)