This made me understand so much more about INFJs! I'm a female ENTP but for some reason most people tell me I come across as very similar to an ENFP. I actually have never been romantically attracted to an INFJ before (due to the lack of people around me who even know about MBTI) but I would love to have meaningful and "validating" conversations about emotions and all other kinds of abstract topics. I'm pretty close on the Thinking-Feeling scale, so I kind of have more Fe than the average ENTP. Although most of the time I actively try to use my Fe and notice when the "feelers" around me need comforting, it's honestly kind of draining to feel like having to "walk on eggshells" when talking to them, and that is something I don't want to have to constantly do in a romantic relationship. But this has told me how important it is to validate INFJs and give them self-confidence as well as urging them to improve themselves.
Melvyna (not verified)says...
This made me understand so much more about INFJs! I'm a female ENTP but for some reason most people tell me I come across as very similar to an ENFP. I actually have never been romantically attracted to an INFJ before (due to the lack of people around me who even know about MBTI) but I would love to have meaningful and "validating" conversations about emotions and all other kinds of abstract topics. I'm pretty close on the Thinking-Feeling scale, so I kind of have more Fe than the average ENTP. Although most of the time I actively try to use my Fe and notice when the "feelers" around me need comforting, it's honestly kind of draining to feel like having to "walk on eggshells" when talking to them, and that is something I don't want to have to constantly do in a romantic relationship. But this has told me how important it is to validate INFJs and give them self-confidence as well as urging them to improve themselves.