As an ENTP who's dating an INFJ, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this thorough yet extremely accurate comment. I sincerely thought I was starting to lose my mind but I am relieved to read that he's not the only INFJ with those toxic traits.
How in hell do I motivate him to grow out of his victim role, to see the world for what it is instead of the one he has inside his mind?
I am literally hanging by threads, exhausted to the core and I really don't know how to handle this any longer. I have tried to reach him in various ways and I simply can't be bothered fighting anymore since I'm literally drained.
Do you have any advice for me on how to handle this, please?
AthenaDiamond (not verified)says...
As an ENTP who's dating an INFJ, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this thorough yet extremely accurate comment. I sincerely thought I was starting to lose my mind but I am relieved to read that he's not the only INFJ with those toxic traits.
How in hell do I motivate him to grow out of his victim role, to see the world for what it is instead of the one he has inside his mind?
I am literally hanging by threads, exhausted to the core and I really don't know how to handle this any longer. I have tried to reach him in various ways and I simply can't be bothered fighting anymore since I'm literally drained.
Do you have any advice for me on how to handle this, please?
Many thanks from Belgium!
Ana - ENTP