Thank you for this insightful piece of information. I have recently identified as an INFJ. I've always wondered why I tend to think about other people's feelings whenever I'm giving some feedback. I do it in a way to make them feel that their ideas or beliefs are respectfully valued. That said, I have a hard time dealing with rejection as I am thinking about things that I may have done wrong. I feel like I have worked so hard and giving my all for a project, and when it is rejected I feel like it is literally me that is being rejected. I would think about my instructors whom had written a letters of recommendation for me, and I would feel disappointed and ashamed that I have failed them. Sometimes, in some cases, I would often go as far as questioning my own resolve and purpose in this life. I always try to move on and think of new ways that I can improve myself, but deep down it's never easy to forget about those feelings because of how intensive they are.
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Thank you for this insightful piece of information. I have recently identified as an INFJ. I've always wondered why I tend to think about other people's feelings whenever I'm giving some feedback. I do it in a way to make them feel that their ideas or beliefs are respectfully valued. That said, I have a hard time dealing with rejection as I am thinking about things that I may have done wrong. I feel like I have worked so hard and giving my all for a project, and when it is rejected I feel like it is literally me that is being rejected. I would think about my instructors whom had written a letters of recommendation for me, and I would feel disappointed and ashamed that I have failed them. Sometimes, in some cases, I would often go as far as questioning my own resolve and purpose in this life. I always try to move on and think of new ways that I can improve myself, but deep down it's never easy to forget about those feelings because of how intensive they are.