I feel you on this! I am an INTJ and I am being labelled as arrogant and condescending by people who actually have less facts about a certain topic and who accuse me of things that have been taken completely out of context. Unfortunately I have to deal with this, but for me personally it only shows the insecurities of the other person. It takes some arrogance to call another person arrogant. Why not actually discuss a topic based on facts, rather than shutting one down only because one has ran out of arguments? ??♀️ INTJ's are definitely misinterpreted a lot, which is so sad, because we do actually care very deeply for other people and only say things that we genuinely think that matter!
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I feel you on this! I am an INTJ and I am being labelled as arrogant and condescending by people who actually have less facts about a certain topic and who accuse me of things that have been taken completely out of context. Unfortunately I have to deal with this, but for me personally it only shows the insecurities of the other person. It takes some arrogance to call another person arrogant. Why not actually discuss a topic based on facts, rather than shutting one down only because one has ran out of arguments? ??♀️ INTJ's are definitely misinterpreted a lot, which is so sad, because we do actually care very deeply for other people and only say things that we genuinely think that matter!