One challenge I (a classic, upbeat ENFP) face is disappointment in myself. I've been told that I am amazing and have unusual skill (for instance, I am a business consultant, talk show host, writer and group facilitator), so I should be a massive achiever and earn lots of money. In fact, I have difficulty attracting clients, earn very little money and my family and I struggle with basic needs. I can't figure out this pattern, but I am a mysterious disappointment to family and close friends. It causes enormous psychic pain and guilt that I endure privately (and emotionally). Thoughts?
Lynn Hinderaker (not verified)says...
One challenge I (a classic, upbeat ENFP) face is disappointment in myself. I've been told that I am amazing and have unusual skill (for instance, I am a business consultant, talk show host, writer and group facilitator), so I should be a massive achiever and earn lots of money. In fact, I have difficulty attracting clients, earn very little money and my family and I struggle with basic needs. I can't figure out this pattern, but I am a mysterious disappointment to family and close friends. It causes enormous psychic pain and guilt that I endure privately (and emotionally). Thoughts?