All the enfjs I experienced spent the worst time with me. I don't conclude that all infp and enfj don't fit in with my experience with enfj. It's more of a person than a type, but it's certain that there's a pattern in the theory of mbti conformity. And according to the socionics relationship table, infp and enfj are close at first, but the more we meet, the less we like it, the more I agree with most of the enfjs I'll tell you why both of them don't fit well. I think we can communicate well in NF-style conversation at first because quiet and sympathetic infp agrees and enfj listens well to each other. The problem is that eN iF and iN eF start to collide enfj is an extroverted and second-order introverted intuition, so he is too popular and worldly. And he doesn't like himself because he's nf and he's a snob. And because iN is used as EF's assistant, it is used mainly for popularity. For example, eF constantly seeks affection and recognition from people around it and cares about other people's psychology with iN. If it goes too far, it is interpreted as strange that other people rejected it without thinkinglessly.This is where the conflict with infp occurs, for example, infp hides the self-emotion inside, and enfj guesses what infp does with the expression or atmosphere of infp. constantly checking whether it is acceptable or not;
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All the enfjs I experienced spent the worst time with me. I don't conclude that all infp and enfj don't fit in with my experience with enfj. It's more of a person than a type, but it's certain that there's a pattern in the theory of mbti conformity. And according to the socionics relationship table, infp and enfj are close at first, but the more we meet, the less we like it, the more I agree with most of the enfjs I'll tell you why both of them don't fit well. I think we can communicate well in NF-style conversation at first because quiet and sympathetic infp agrees and enfj listens well to each other. The problem is that eN iF and iN eF start to collide enfj is an extroverted and second-order introverted intuition, so he is too popular and worldly. And he doesn't like himself because he's nf and he's a snob. And because iN is used as EF's assistant, it is used mainly for popularity. For example, eF constantly seeks affection and recognition from people around it and cares about other people's psychology with iN. If it goes too far, it is interpreted as strange that other people rejected it without thinkinglessly.This is where the conflict with infp occurs, for example, infp hides the self-emotion inside, and enfj guesses what infp does with the expression or atmosphere of infp. constantly checking whether it is acceptable or not;