ENTJ and 8 - so glad to see there are others who fit this personality set...starting to feel like I'm a misfit! This particular mix of traits has made it a struggle for me as a woman throughout my life. I am a petite female with a big voice and it definitely gets a reaction- not always positive. Most men are initially attracted to my independence and fiery personality. But the things that draw them to me are ultimately the very things that they want to change once they have me. They all want some docile needy little thing hanging on their arm. I cannot fathom being with someone out of need vs want. I LOVE BEING AN 8 and all the things about it that make me unique...still waiting for man who can handle it!!
gingerlass (not verified)says...
ENTJ and 8 - so glad to see there are others who fit this personality set...starting to feel like I'm a misfit! This particular mix of traits has made it a struggle for me as a woman throughout my life. I am a petite female with a big voice and it definitely gets a reaction- not always positive. Most men are initially attracted to my independence and fiery personality. But the things that draw them to me are ultimately the very things that they want to change once they have me. They all want some docile needy little thing hanging on their arm. I cannot fathom being with someone out of need vs want. I LOVE BEING AN 8 and all the things about it that make me unique...still waiting for man who can handle it!!