louis wachsmuth (not verified)says...

Thank you, well spoken. One problem, what then do you do during large family gatherings when all are cackling and babbling and you feel left out? As a 75 year old, I really don't fit in with my own adult children and grand kids. Since I can't interject 'clever' quips and comments, I have become invisible. During last Christmas eve, my house was full of people, but I sat alone in the corner. No one wants deep discussions, just shallow platitudes. All good, church-attending citizens, but can't relate to the 'old guy' in the corner chair. There is a cost in being a INFP.

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