As an ISTJ who is also three years into a full-time author job at home, I can say it's a good time to call a family meeting for some renegotiation of the boundaries. As in: create them and stick to them. I was a sahm, too. The hardest part of both jobs is that you never actually leave them. They feel around-the-clock and an ISTJ is working even when she's not. Remind him that relationships are also part of the day job and start blocking off the calendar for "you" time and "us" time. No work allowed. Guard this new space like a dragon and make this balance beautiful, as only an INFP can.
Jolie Tunnellsays...
As an ISTJ who is also three years into a full-time author job at home, I can say it's a good time to call a family meeting for some renegotiation of the boundaries. As in: create them and stick to them. I was a sahm, too. The hardest part of both jobs is that you never actually leave them. They feel around-the-clock and an ISTJ is working even when she's not. Remind him that relationships are also part of the day job and start blocking off the calendar for "you" time and "us" time. No work allowed. Guard this new space like a dragon and make this balance beautiful, as only an INFP can.