In response to the reader comment, I think it is always *harder* to reach out when ‘dropped’ or our rosy idealization glasses come off whether INFJ or not because another failed relationship badge was just issued and that = bad feelings. But yes I do believe our INFJ wounds do feel deeper. Our love feels deeper. Unfortunately our discouragement also feels deeper. Good news: We are given a counterbalance; a resilience that propels us forward with our inward content out into the world... Comfortable putting those rosy glasses on again and seeing a nearly perfect someone we can help.
BUT we also get *smarter* with each experience which helps us refocus on ourselves and the now (where our mind SHOULD be).
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In response to the reader comment, I think it is always *harder* to reach out when ‘dropped’ or our rosy idealization glasses come off whether INFJ or not because another failed relationship badge was just issued and that = bad feelings.
But yes I do believe our INFJ wounds do feel deeper. Our love feels deeper. Unfortunately our discouragement also feels deeper. Good news: We are given a counterbalance; a resilience that propels us forward with our inward content out into the world... Comfortable putting those rosy glasses on again and seeing a nearly perfect someone we can help.
BUT we also get *smarter* with each experience which helps us refocus on ourselves and the now (where our mind SHOULD be).
The ‘dropped’ is the past.
The ‘harder to reach out’ is the future.
Enjoy today with yourself.