Hi K:) I am an INTJ woman too, 24. I TOTALLY feel you more than you know! I have never been told to my face my other women at places I worked that I am not liked but I have KNOWN that I am unliked for my directness, honesty, and intellect. It does not help if you are pretty too, because other women will take your INTJ characteristics as even more arrogant (I have been told by peers I am arrogant several x). I too have always connected with men far easier! Being pretty this makes it even harder because when I was as a teaching assistant with the other 90% of TA's being women, and the 10% being men, all of them talking to me, it pissed off the other 90% of the women. I have always felt secluded and isolated from women who are WHITE. ( I am white). I suggest looking for women who are diverse because I have found great success in building relationships with women from diverse backgrounds. However this has taken me my entire life. I would find filler people for the time being such as guys at the gym or something who you can chill with and watch games (sports) or something with. That being said i totally feel you and feel your pain. I was fired from a job being told that "I am very brilliant, but have an attitude." All I can say it screw those people. Build barriers do not CARE if they don't like you. who needs them anyway? Smile when you see them (women seem to loving smiling idk). This will make you appear very friendly. If you believe in God pray to him and he will assist you with the unseen angels :)
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Hi K:) I am an INTJ woman too, 24. I TOTALLY feel you more than you know! I have never been told to my face my other women at places I worked that I am not liked but I have KNOWN that I am unliked for my directness, honesty, and intellect. It does not help if you are pretty too, because other women will take your INTJ characteristics as even more arrogant (I have been told by peers I am arrogant several x). I too have always connected with men far easier! Being pretty this makes it even harder because when I was as a teaching assistant with the other 90% of TA's being women, and the 10% being men, all of them talking to me, it pissed off the other 90% of the women. I have always felt secluded and isolated from women who are WHITE. ( I am white). I suggest looking for women who are diverse because I have found great success in building relationships with women from diverse backgrounds. However this has taken me my entire life. I would find filler people for the time being such as guys at the gym or something who you can chill with and watch games (sports) or something with. That being said i totally feel you and feel your pain. I was fired from a job being told that "I am very brilliant, but have an attitude." All I can say it screw those people. Build barriers do not CARE if they don't like you. who needs them anyway? Smile when you see them (women seem to loving smiling idk). This will make you appear very friendly. If you believe in God pray to him and he will assist you with the unseen angels :)