I'm also an INTP but I was diagnosed with ADD as a child and grew up with the framework to help people with ADD (my dad is a school psych). What you're describing is something i recently came across and gave me an epiphany and also let me access understanding and help for it. Its called rejection sensitive dysphoria and it's a common side symptoms of ADD/ADHD people. I'd encourage you to go check out this article if you want to read something more on it:https://www.additudemag.com/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria-how-to-treat-i...
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Hey friend!
I'm also an INTP but I was diagnosed with ADD as a child and grew up with the framework to help people with ADD (my dad is a school psych). What you're describing is something i recently came across and gave me an epiphany and also let me access understanding and help for it. Its called rejection sensitive dysphoria and it's a common side symptoms of ADD/ADHD people. I'd encourage you to go check out this article if you want to read something more on it:https://www.additudemag.com/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria-how-to-treat-i...
You're not alone in this. Good luck!