I completely agree with you. I feel like this as well. When someone tells me I’m doing something wrong. I get so mad and defensive. It is even worse if I think it might actually be true. I shut down. I am so hard on myself. I’m constantly thinking why don’t they understand me. Obviously I thought about it and you telling me that I didn’t think about is really offensive. Anyone have tips on getting the people close to you understand you better?
Carrie79 (not verified)says...
I completely agree with you. I feel like this as well. When someone tells me I’m doing something wrong. I get so mad and defensive. It is even worse if I think it might actually be true. I shut down. I am so hard on myself. I’m constantly thinking why don’t they understand me. Obviously I thought about it and you telling me that I didn’t think about is really offensive. Anyone have tips on getting the people close to you understand you better?