i just had this discussion. My intuitivness is like all the way to the wall. I’ve been meditating for 180 days so that hopefully has helped the sensing.
I see that if the SENSING & FEELING either is under or over developed (not really sure which one) that it can lead to believing our feelings.
That is actually a cognitive distortion in cbt. And I found my self arguing with this.
i only started seeing more and more patterns because I started keeping track of interactions.
i think to, the intuitive side can come up with patterns that don’t mean anything. That’s why I obsess by about learning enough about the world (note, I notice I get kinda intellectually off from those concept idea books that give us a new lense, and the sensing world books of topics aren’t as interesting or stimulating is a better word. Those books I find I do getvery useful info out of in a different way. It’s more info I need for eq and LQ (Love quotient). I went through and read 900 pages in 3 separate books on human emotion in past couple month and it helped me see peopledifferently (I learned a bunch of the science)
i make a point to constantly learn and build a model I know works so my patterns I’m seeing aren’t wrong. I’m more concerned with getting to right, than being right. I get frustrated when a sensing person will attack what’s I’m seeing despite me seeing and having researched a topic extensively. And it’s not that I have to be right, again it’s about getting to right, (it involves other people)
often though in disagreements they end up just not liking what I have to say or present and then despite me even explaining the steps we need to take and what it means, it feels like they all just flatness our disagree and when asked why , they don’t have any justification.
im willing to be flexible, I’m not usually willing to sacrifice basic logic though.
H2orocks4001 (not verified)says...
oh my God!...spot on!!!
i just had this discussion. My intuitivness is like all the way to the wall. I’ve been meditating for 180 days so that hopefully has helped the sensing.
I see that if the SENSING & FEELING either is under or over developed (not really sure which one) that it can lead to believing our feelings.
That is actually a cognitive distortion in cbt. And I found my self arguing with this.
i only started seeing more and more patterns because I started keeping track of interactions.
i think to, the intuitive side can come up with patterns that don’t mean anything. That’s why I obsess by about learning enough about the world (note, I notice I get kinda intellectually off from those concept idea books that give us a new lense, and the sensing world books of topics aren’t as interesting or stimulating is a better word. Those books I find I do getvery useful info out of in a different way. It’s more info I need for eq and LQ (Love quotient). I went through and read 900 pages in 3 separate books on human emotion in past couple month and it helped me see peopledifferently (I learned a bunch of the science)
i make a point to constantly learn and build a model I know works so my patterns I’m seeing aren’t wrong. I’m more concerned with getting to right, than being right. I get frustrated when a sensing person will attack what’s I’m seeing despite me seeing and having researched a topic extensively. And it’s not that I have to be right, again it’s about getting to right, (it involves other people)
often though in disagreements they end up just not liking what I have to say or present and then despite me even explaining the steps we need to take and what it means, it feels like they all just flatness our disagree and when asked why , they don’t have any justification.
im willing to be flexible, I’m not usually willing to sacrifice basic logic though.
what do I do , ugh.