I never leave comments on any website but this article really resonated with me. I’ve read some of the comments and find it absolutely fascinating. I’m a female ENTJ but I border on Introvert, I’m in my 30s, and have recently been diagnosed with ADHD. Haha I live in a small traditional town where my family owns a local business is VERY white and very narrow minded. My perceptions, ideas, and at times my existence has been rejected my entire life here because of what most had considered rebellion, crazy, and/or extreme feminism.. I loved reading everyone’s thoughts and experiences here. It was like drinking a hot beverage. It warmed my soul. I have my degree in interior design (imagine that) because I am a fantastic conceptual problem solver and am very creative. I had to take a position outside of my norm when I moved back to be with family. Everyone here are sensors. It’s been ROUGH; however, I adjusted my technique to my surroundings. It took a lot of time utilizing the process of elimination. I discovered that when I compare things to everyday examples that I’d typically not think twice about and incorporate humor people all of a sudden are on my team. We’re deep thinkers. We don’t try to be, it’s how we roll. At times, Ive broken things down to S types and came across as condescending. It takes practice. Some are more open then others and some are legit crazier and insecure then others. These are the ones I feel I have to be cautious with. Insecure S types are scary. I also learned that I had to incorporate humor. Humor really helped me out. Doesn’t always work but eh. I’ll adapt. I have so many clients now and it’s all word of mouth AND it was such an obvious change. S types, I think, need to belong. We can adapt. Does it suck that the world isn’t our way. Yes, I guess. I’ve had these super internal moments myself. Why should I have to try all the time. They don’t appreciate me. Blah blah blah. But in the big picture, it depends on how you look at everything and hopefully you’re more positive then negative. We ARE the only true mentally free people in a sense. The S types are locked in. I agree with another person on here. We need them and they need us and we are them and they are us. It’s a balance. They don’t see us because we’re not helping them to see us. Should we have to no but it’s how the world works.. You could become a shut in or just loathe everything BUUT helping others I think is more rewarding. Once they know you’re there, they’ll respect your perception. I ALWAYS thought my family was dumb. Turns out, theyre not. They’re just SUPER literal and super narrow minded. They’re actually damn smart. We’re just different. We have to guide them out of their tunnels so they can finally see the stars. Once they realize there’s a whole universe and different way of thinking, I think they’ll be much more open to new perceptions. It’s a guidance issue. Don’t look at this article as a self help article, look at it as a tool. It’s another resource to our massive mental library. It’s showing us how we can guide the S types to enlightenment.
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I never leave comments on any website but this article really resonated with me. I’ve read some of the comments and find it absolutely fascinating. I’m a female ENTJ but I border on Introvert, I’m in my 30s, and have recently been diagnosed with ADHD. Haha I live in a small traditional town where my family owns a local business is VERY white and very narrow minded. My perceptions, ideas, and at times my existence has been rejected my entire life here because of what most had considered rebellion, crazy, and/or extreme feminism.. I loved reading everyone’s thoughts and experiences here. It was like drinking a hot beverage. It warmed my soul. I have my degree in interior design (imagine that) because I am a fantastic conceptual problem solver and am very creative. I had to take a position outside of my norm when I moved back to be with family. Everyone here are sensors. It’s been ROUGH; however, I adjusted my technique to my surroundings. It took a lot of time utilizing the process of elimination. I discovered that when I compare things to everyday examples that I’d typically not think twice about and incorporate humor people all of a sudden are on my team. We’re deep thinkers. We don’t try to be, it’s how we roll. At times, Ive broken things down to S types and came across as condescending. It takes practice. Some are more open then others and some are legit crazier and insecure then others. These are the ones I feel I have to be cautious with. Insecure S types are scary. I also learned that I had to incorporate humor. Humor really helped me out. Doesn’t always work but eh. I’ll adapt. I have so many clients now and it’s all word of mouth AND it was such an obvious change. S types, I think, need to belong. We can adapt. Does it suck that the world isn’t our way. Yes, I guess. I’ve had these super internal moments myself. Why should I have to try all the time. They don’t appreciate me. Blah blah blah. But in the big picture, it depends on how you look at everything and hopefully you’re more positive then negative. We ARE the only true mentally free people in a sense. The S types are locked in. I agree with another person on here. We need them and they need us and we are them and they are us. It’s a balance. They don’t see us because we’re not helping them to see us. Should we have to no but it’s how the world works.. You could become a shut in or just loathe everything BUUT helping others I think is more rewarding. Once they know you’re there, they’ll respect your perception. I ALWAYS thought my family was dumb. Turns out, theyre not. They’re just SUPER literal and super narrow minded. They’re actually damn smart. We’re just different. We have to guide them out of their tunnels so they can finally see the stars. Once they realize there’s a whole universe and different way of thinking, I think they’ll be much more open to new perceptions. It’s a guidance issue. Don’t look at this article as a self help article, look at it as a tool. It’s another resource to our massive mental library. It’s showing us how we can guide the S types to enlightenment.
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