thank you for this article! I seem to always attract "needy" friends! As an INTJ it is extremely exhausting being a woman who has to lend a sympathetic ear to these needy friends who never follow practical solutions to fixing their problems. So frustrating to hear the same problem everyday over and over and over and over again......! It feels especially unjust when it is finally my turn to talk but the person poorly reciprocates.
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thank you for this article! I seem to always attract "needy" friends! As an INTJ it is extremely exhausting being a woman who has to lend a sympathetic ear to these needy friends who never follow practical solutions to fixing their problems. So frustrating to hear the same problem everyday over and over and over and over again......! It feels especially unjust when it is finally my turn to talk but the person poorly reciprocates.