“. .你的朋友问you Friday afternoon to go to a party with them on Friday night..having my plans changed from solitude to socialization is one of my greatest fears in life." THIS! THANK YOU! I've always been mocked for my "inflexibility" when it comes to social gatherings. I simply HATE making last-minute arrangements or changes to a plan. It takes time for me to commit to a social evening, and find it hard to tolerate any changes, even so small as going to place B instead of A, or especially if it turns out there are a bunch of other ppl joining us instead of just my cozy circle of close, trusted, intellectual friends. In general, I really, profoundly suck at uncertainty and spontaneity. I once went on a trip with 2 guys and had planned everything out to the last detail. They kept on telling me to relax and sadistically refused using my carefully orchestrated schedule. Needless to say, it wasn't the best vacation of my life. How do you deal with making decisions? For me, it's the absolute nightmare. I was recently looking to purchase a new laptop and took analyzing my options to a degree where my brain just wanted to explode as I was trying to weigh in ALL the factors, and after a week of research in such a stressful state I was near crying just from looking at the online laptop store. Choosing between shampoos or hair colors in the supermarket can also easily take me up to 15 minutes. Can anyone relate?
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“. .你的朋友问you Friday afternoon to go to a party with them on Friday night..having my plans changed from solitude to socialization is one of my greatest fears in life." THIS! THANK YOU! I've always been mocked for my "inflexibility" when it comes to social gatherings. I simply HATE making last-minute arrangements or changes to a plan. It takes time for me to commit to a social evening, and find it hard to tolerate any changes, even so small as going to place B instead of A, or especially if it turns out there are a bunch of other ppl joining us instead of just my cozy circle of close, trusted, intellectual friends. In general, I really, profoundly suck at uncertainty and spontaneity.
I once went on a trip with 2 guys and had planned everything out to the last detail. They kept on telling me to relax and sadistically refused using my carefully orchestrated schedule. Needless to say, it wasn't the best vacation of my life.
How do you deal with making decisions? For me, it's the absolute nightmare. I was recently looking to purchase a new laptop and took analyzing my options to a degree where my brain just wanted to explode as I was trying to weigh in ALL the factors, and after a week of research in such a stressful state I was near crying just from looking at the online laptop store. Choosing between shampoos or hair colors in the supermarket can also easily take me up to 15 minutes. Can anyone relate?