Hello Tündi Ah, we may as well have been separated at birth :-) I'm completely with you. As 'judgers' we love to know what's coming and feel highly unsettled when plans change. The key for me is to recognise when that happens and get as comfortable as I can with the fact that's how it is. I wonder whether agonising over decisions is linked to this trait of ours. I can't help but think there is a large element of 'decision fatigue'. Here's an excellent TED talk on this topic. Enjoy!https://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice?langua...
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Hello Tündi
Ah, we may as well have been separated at birth :-) I'm completely with you. As 'judgers' we love to know what's coming and feel highly unsettled when plans change. The key for me is to recognise when that happens and get as comfortable as I can with the fact that's how it is. I wonder whether agonising over decisions is linked to this trait of ours. I can't help but think there is a large element of 'decision fatigue'. Here's an excellent TED talk on this topic. Enjoy!https://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice?langua...