Hello kin-judgers, As an elderly INFJ, I have found that being able to say to myself "I don't know!" to be very helpful when I get lost in the labyrinth of inner uncertainty. It breaks the tension, restores my lost sense of humor, and I can move on. Also, thanks for defensive pessimism strategy! and for understanding that I may need to choose to make this a one time post. As much as I'd like to hear from you and to share more, I am disabled with CFS/SEID and Sjögren's syndrome. If you are younger than 67, I hope that you are taking as much exquisite care of yourself as you can manage. In the hindsight of an over-accommodating INFJ, I hope you don't make that same mistake (over-accommodating). ... This isn't anywhere close to an adequate post and reply. I must fall back on quoting the white rabbit in Alice in Wonderland, "I'm late, I'm late, for a very important date." Which is sleep!!
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Hello kin-judgers,
As an elderly INFJ, I have found that being able to say to myself "I don't know!" to be very helpful when I get lost in the labyrinth of inner uncertainty. It breaks the tension, restores my lost sense of humor, and I can move on.
Also, thanks for defensive pessimism strategy! and for understanding that I may need to choose to make this a one time post. As much as I'd like to hear from you and to share more, I am disabled with CFS/SEID and Sjögren's syndrome. If you are younger than 67, I hope that you are taking as much exquisite care of yourself as you can manage. In the hindsight of an over-accommodating INFJ, I hope you don't make that same mistake (over-accommodating). ... This isn't anywhere close to an adequate post and reply. I must fall back on quoting the white rabbit in Alice in Wonderland, "I'm late, I'm late, for a very important date." Which is sleep!!