I completely agree. As a female INTJ, I have found that society seems like a lonely place. Not only do most people not understand my actions and thoughts, it seems as though no one is competent enough to take the time to try to understand. Loneliness is a punishment for the INTJ, especially the female, as most other females are social creatures who enjoy talking about things that most other females find interesting. Not for me. We definitely aren't as cold as people paint us out to be. In love, I find that I never have "crushes", but rather "intriguing people" that I begin to notice. For me, or just for the INTJ female, it's either interest at first sight or nothing. I can tell quickly whether or not someone can possibly be a partner. And when we fall for someone, we fall- it doesn't have to do with appearance, but rather with the personality and knowledge of whom we've fallen for.
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I completely agree.
As a female INTJ, I have found that society seems like a lonely place. Not only do most people not understand my actions and thoughts, it seems as though no one is competent enough to take the time to try to understand. Loneliness is a punishment for the INTJ, especially the female, as most other females are social creatures who enjoy talking about things that most other females find interesting. Not for me.
We definitely aren't as cold as people paint us out to be. In love, I find that I never have "crushes", but rather "intriguing people" that I begin to notice. For me, or just for the INTJ female, it's either interest at first sight or nothing. I can tell quickly whether or not someone can possibly be a partner. And when we fall for someone, we fall- it doesn't have to do with appearance, but rather with the personality and knowledge of whom we've fallen for.