While I am not a female I am an INTJ and I can relate to nearly all of the things mentioned in this article - most particularly the statement of "It's rare to find someone who gets your bluntness, your sarcasm and your dark humor." Of the friends that I have had over the course of my life there certainly have been those that have appreciated these and other qualities of my personality but rarely did they really 'get' me. The fact that I am also majorly ADHD and have suffered from depressive and social anxiety issues my whole life has only compounded the problem. Being a gay man has exacerbated the issue even further - nearly every time I'm 'friendly' to another guy (and truly it is difficult and awkward enough for me) they usually take it as being sexually related and almost all the guys that I have met who want to be 'friends' have actually really just wanted sex or a dating/boyfriend type relationship. Being so damn handsome can be a curse. ;-) Hahaha
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While I am not a female I am an INTJ and I can relate to nearly all of the things mentioned in this article - most particularly the statement of "It's rare to find someone who gets your bluntness, your sarcasm and your dark humor." Of the friends that I have had over the course of my life there certainly have been those that have appreciated these and other qualities of my personality but rarely did they really 'get' me. The fact that I am also majorly ADHD and have suffered from depressive and social anxiety issues my whole life has only compounded the problem. Being a gay man has exacerbated the issue even further - nearly every time I'm 'friendly' to another guy (and truly it is difficult and awkward enough for me) they usually take it as being sexually related and almost all the guys that I have met who want to be 'friends' have actually really just wanted sex or a dating/boyfriend type relationship. Being so damn handsome can be a curse. ;-) Hahaha