I am 66 years old and also share your same sentiments. Getting to this age being an Intj has not been easy and there have been some regrets. Mostly when I did not follow my true self and tried to fit in with others. Not realizing that it would only bring failure and heartache. So now at this ripe old age when people try to label me and make suggestions on what I should do, I just nod my head, sometimes I smile and come to realize I need to leave this situation alone, sometimes, I hang onto a relationship not because it is productive or healthy but because it is down right entertaining. But eventually, I have to let it go because it becomes to overwhelming and judgements.. So k retreat back into myself with my thoughts, good books, tv and my best friend of late the iPad. When I try to step out of myself I get into trouble, never fails. This old bird is still learning not to feel so alone.
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I am 66 years old and also share your same sentiments. Getting to this age being an Intj has not been easy and there have been some regrets. Mostly when I did not follow my true self and tried to fit in with others. Not realizing that it would only bring failure and heartache. So now at this ripe old age when people try to label me and make suggestions on what I should do, I just nod my head, sometimes I smile and come to realize I need to leave this situation alone, sometimes, I hang onto a relationship not because it is productive or healthy but because it is down right entertaining. But eventually, I have to let it go because it becomes to overwhelming and judgements.. So k retreat back into myself with my thoughts, good books, tv and my best friend of late the iPad. When I try to step out of myself I get into trouble, never fails. This old bird is still learning not to feel so alone.