Thanks for sharing that story, Xav, which is actually spot-on. In his book, Gary Chapman says one way to find out what love language your beloved speaks is to look at the kinds of gifts they give to you and others. Not so surprisingly, we tend to give others what we'd like ourselves. When I realized my mate was always doing things for me (Acts of Service) I realized the quickest way to his heart. When I start of the vacuum cleaner it goes "Vroom-vroom," but my husband's heart goes pitter-pat! thanks again for commenting!
Ellen Lambertsays...
Thanks for sharing that story, Xav, which is actually spot-on. In his book, Gary Chapman says one way to find out what love language your beloved speaks is to look at the kinds of gifts they give to you and others. Not so surprisingly, we tend to give others what we'd like ourselves. When I realized my mate was always doing things for me (Acts of Service) I realized the quickest way to his heart. When I start of the vacuum cleaner it goes "Vroom-vroom," but my husband's heart goes pitter-pat! thanks again for commenting!