Janainthegarden (not verified)says...

Am I supposed to change ENTIRELY in order to find a man then? No thanks!:-) I'm INTJ-A young woman, attractive enough to always have guys talking to me when I'm out. I have a good job, starting my PhD. What if I actually AM more intelligent, driven, passionate than any of them. Should I go for less? I like my own company, I don't need children.

If I met an ENTJ whom I would consider as equal and could see us achieving great things together or loyal ENFP who would take care of the children while I'm focusing on other things then probably yes.

But I think I will be alone and that's ok as I'm on the way achieving my goals. Guys like more extroverted women, ideally a bit more stupid than they are. There is so much more to be said but what's the point, we all know the reality.

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