You are probably a fairly young INTJ. I acted like you before. Now a few relationships later, I go straight for the kill. If I ever start to chat with a guy, I ask him to coffee after 1 week so I can know if we are compatible right the way. If yes, I will continue to see him. If not, I move on to the next potential date. I also understand girls want to wait for guys to make the first move. This is why I chatted with an INTJ guy for over 6 weeks but he never asked me out, except to a group discussion after 4 weeks. lol It is the best for you both to cut the chase and meet him for coffee or study group because it is better to find out the answer sooner.
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You are probably a fairly young INTJ. I acted like you before. Now a few relationships later, I go straight for the kill. If I ever start to chat with a guy, I ask him to coffee after 1 week so I can know if we are compatible right the way. If yes, I will continue to see him. If not, I move on to the next potential date. I also understand girls want to wait for guys to make the first move. This is why I chatted with an INTJ guy for over 6 weeks but he never asked me out, except to a group discussion after 4 weeks. lol It is the best for you both to cut the chase and meet him for coffee or study group because it is better to find out the answer sooner.