Laughsome article! XD INTJs don't automatically suck at romance.
I am a dating coach and I have an exceptionally well developed INTJ personality (lower functions well developed, including + healthy shadow functions).
While it's true that when I was younger, I was clueless about romance... Over the course of time I figured out how attractions exactly works and even wrote the universal translator between masculine and feminine individuals which always work. No matter the type of couple (hetero, gay, lesbo).
For example, when a woman says "she is fine" when she is not, it's her test to see if the man cares enough to open her up emotionally with presence and action. If the man doesn't open her up, ignoring her instead - she becomes pissed off and say things like to bring away the trash, etc... But what she is actually pissed off at the weakness of the man, that caused her to go in her masculine (which she doesn't like) and if prolonged over time, the sexual polarity will fade away.
As INTJ I still put low priority on romance and flirting, preferring logic and strategical planning. But I'm still amazing at romance and flirting, when the situation calls it.
So don't automatically assume that INTJs need romance lesson. Not all INTJs are the same.
DatingCoach (INTJ) (not verified)says...
Laughsome article! XD INTJs don't automatically suck at romance.
I am a dating coach and I have an exceptionally well developed INTJ personality (lower functions well developed, including + healthy shadow functions).
While it's true that when I was younger, I was clueless about romance... Over the course of time I figured out how attractions exactly works and even wrote the universal translator between masculine and feminine individuals which always work. No matter the type of couple (hetero, gay, lesbo).
For example, when a woman says "she is fine" when she is not, it's her test to see if the man cares enough to open her up emotionally with presence and action. If the man doesn't open her up, ignoring her instead - she becomes pissed off and say things like to bring away the trash, etc... But what she is actually pissed off at the weakness of the man, that caused her to go in her masculine (which she doesn't like) and if prolonged over time, the sexual polarity will fade away.
As INTJ I still put low priority on romance and flirting, preferring logic and strategical planning. But I'm still amazing at romance and flirting, when the situation calls it.
So don't automatically assume that INTJs need romance lesson. Not all INTJs are the same.
I wish you a great day!