在28日自己,问所有这些同样的问题s... I realized that I'm missing so much warm moments in my seclusion and started getting this solved a year ago, tinder, speed datings, getting social... After 9 tries I probably can say, that you have 2 options: - 'Your' person will just click, you will have no doubt about that. Your goal here is to not screw this up - do everything you can as if she is your priority one, and do not try to test more intimate strategies since shyness may unfortunately leave you as friends which is the worst. You will know when you meet her - since any time you spend together makes you feel energized and motivated, comfortable and interesting. - Or, you will understand that the person has traits that would make them a great life partner. Maybe they don't 'click' immediately, or not tick all your checkboxes, but here you have to decide if you'd like to compromise any of these, or if any other her traits compensate the lack of others. Believe that she is the one and then act as in option 1. I haven't tested this yet, because this is more plan B for me right now, still believe the next one is the one.
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在28日自己,问所有这些同样的问题s... I realized that I'm missing so much warm moments in my seclusion and started getting this solved a year ago, tinder, speed datings, getting social...
After 9 tries I probably can say, that you have 2 options:
- 'Your' person will just click, you will have no doubt about that. Your goal here is to not screw this up - do everything you can as if she is your priority one, and do not try to test more intimate strategies since shyness may unfortunately leave you as friends which is the worst. You will know when you meet her - since any time you spend together makes you feel energized and motivated, comfortable and interesting.
- Or, you will understand that the person has traits that would make them a great life partner. Maybe they don't 'click' immediately, or not tick all your checkboxes, but here you have to decide if you'd like to compromise any of these, or if any other her traits compensate the lack of others. Believe that she is the one and then act as in option 1. I haven't tested this yet, because this is more plan B for me right now, still believe the next one is the one.
Please let me know how it goes :)