BoredINTJ at 1AM (not verified)says...

#6 should read INTJ rather than INFJ, though I suppose for the sake of argument it could be said to apply to both. It would be inaccurate to say that INTJs score high on J....udging. Not always. I used to score high on J as an INTJ, now I am pretty balanced between P and J. This is another example where gross generalizations are not particularly helpful and may lead to confusion.

I'd also add that "hurry it up already" is an intolerant ENTJ like comment. INTJ process much differently than, let's say an ENTJ. That difference should be honored. What's wrong with enjoying the process? People can conversely be impulsive and make bad judgments in areas of romance. Nothing sexy or romantic about an unwanted sexual encounter, pregnancy or marriage. I guess one of the things I take greatest pride in as an INTJ is the ability to make excellent decisions. I rarely regret the decisions I make because of the thought and analysis that I put into it. I would not say that about a lot of other types. There is virtue in deliberation and thoughtfulness, especially when it comes to relationships and their importance in our lives.

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