It's so refreshing to hear from a fellow female INTJ, and I relate to so much of your experience. I lived in Germany for 3 years, and I always counted myself lucky because Germans are not nearly as interested in "nice"ness and empty pleasantry. Interesting point about the advantages of avoidance. It goes against my nature to let things work themselves out, because I think us INTJs know that things don't just happen without action. I have top say this strategy would probably save many of us a lot of anxiety! I hope you keep up the blog!
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It's so refreshing to hear from a fellow female INTJ, and I relate to so much of your experience. I lived in Germany for 3 years, and I always counted myself lucky because Germans are not nearly as interested in "nice"ness and empty pleasantry. Interesting point about the advantages of avoidance. It goes against my nature to let things work themselves out, because I think us INTJs know that things don't just happen without action. I have top say this strategy would probably save many of us a lot of anxiety! I hope you keep up the blog!