First of all, I'm sorry to hear about the losses of your husbands.
INFJs tend to me drawn to those who are outgoing. I know that I am. I guess that there's some truth that opposites attract; and they can make up for the weakness. I am drawn to those who are the opposite of me - outgoing and cheerful, unlike me. It's nice being with them, but however, conflicts happen more. The "other side" don't understand you and don't get it I had a good friend one time who was just like me. It took a little while for us to connect. He turned out to be the very best friend I ever had. It was because we very much understood each other. Unfortunately I split up with him because he had changed.
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First of all, I'm sorry to hear about the losses of your husbands.
INFJs tend to me drawn to those who are outgoing. I know that I am. I guess that there's some truth that opposites attract; and they can make up for the weakness. I am drawn to those who are the opposite of me - outgoing and cheerful, unlike me. It's nice being with them, but however, conflicts happen more. The "other side" don't understand you and don't get it I had a good friend one time who was just like me. It took a little while for us to connect. He turned out to be the very best friend I ever had. It was because we very much understood each other. Unfortunately I split up with him because he had changed.