It is funny to see how ENFP and ENFP talking to each other ? I feel like in the middle of minions ocean and I’m happy. I really need an ENFP friend to talk to... I’m an ENFP-T and my emotional statement is not good right now...
我同意这篇文章。自从COVID-19作为rantine days... I’ve been working as a freelancer and I spent a lot and a lot of time behind my desk to draw and do the ”necessary” things to build the self-marketing. I just want to get money and help to support my family. In my culture, we need to give money to our parents when we have finished our study. But I stressed out because my career isn't really complete yet.
I have stepsisters and stepfather who is in the sensory types and they often misjudge/misunderstand me. They think that I’m being anti-social because I keep working and never come down to watch YouTube videos together and all. Well... I wanted to, but I got so many things to do. And I feel that the YouTube they’re watching are boring.. They just keep watching streetfood and videos of someone walking at the street of Korea with 360 camera! I mean, sure... I can enjoy it too.. But I prefer to be productive and produce something out rather than doing such waste of time that doesn't make me gain anything.
So, jump to the current situation is that... They all don’t want to talk to me. Both of my sisters (ISFP &ESFP) always pull themselves from me. I don't even know what I did wrong, and when I tried to start a deep talk, they walk past me. And when I ask something small, they answer but in frowning brows and irritating tone. Oh my gosh... What should I do, really... My stepfather (ESFJ) don't really like me, and always talk bad about me since I was a kid. I’ve adapted to it, I guess... But then everyone in my house always put me in one corner because of what he says about me. I’m always in the wrong of every single thing. Even when my hair fall then my father gets angry, he said that I never grab them off the ground and throw them away. The thing is, I DID! But I’m not a vacuum cleaner robot that can spot all of the hairsss. And the hair that I always spots belong to my sisters. But my father always pointed me because my hair is the longest. Even when I ask my mother who is INFP-A, she always defends my sisters and father and said that I’m overthinking.She’s the only one I can talk to, but she is always not available, she keeps looking at her phone and gets angry when I keep talking to her. Shuts... I really hate this situation right now... Why wouldn’t anyone talk to me... Am I that bad?
I cried when no one knows, whatever... But I think I really need help with another human being that is there, that I can make an eye-contact with.. or simply... Anyone that I can talk to... Gosh I sounds so emo right now...
Jane F (not verified)says...
It is funny to see how ENFP and ENFP talking to each other ? I feel like in the middle of minions ocean and I’m happy. I really need an ENFP friend to talk to... I’m an ENFP-T and my emotional statement is not good right now...
我同意这篇文章。自从COVID-19作为rantine days... I’ve been working as a freelancer and I spent a lot and a lot of time behind my desk to draw and do the ”necessary” things to build the self-marketing. I just want to get money and help to support my family. In my culture, we need to give money to our parents when we have finished our study. But I stressed out because my career isn't really complete yet.
I have stepsisters and stepfather who is in the sensory types and they often misjudge/misunderstand me. They think that I’m being anti-social because I keep working and never come down to watch YouTube videos together and all. Well... I wanted to, but I got so many things to do. And I feel that the YouTube they’re watching are boring.. They just keep watching streetfood and videos of someone walking at the street of Korea with 360 camera! I mean, sure... I can enjoy it too.. But I prefer to be productive and produce something out rather than doing such waste of time that doesn't make me gain anything.
So, jump to the current situation is that... They all don’t want to talk to me. Both of my sisters (ISFP &ESFP) always pull themselves from me. I don't even know what I did wrong, and when I tried to start a deep talk, they walk past me. And when I ask something small, they answer but in frowning brows and irritating tone. Oh my gosh... What should I do, really... My stepfather (ESFJ) don't really like me, and always talk bad about me since I was a kid. I’ve adapted to it, I guess... But then everyone in my house always put me in one corner because of what he says about me. I’m always in the wrong of every single thing. Even when my hair fall then my father gets angry, he said that I never grab them off the ground and throw them away. The thing is, I DID! But I’m not a vacuum cleaner robot that can spot all of the hairsss. And the hair that I always spots belong to my sisters. But my father always pointed me because my hair is the longest. Even when I ask my mother who is INFP-A, she always defends my sisters and father and said that I’m overthinking.She’s the only one I can talk to, but she is always not available, she keeps looking at her phone and gets angry when I keep talking to her. Shuts... I really hate this situation right now... Why wouldn’t anyone talk to me... Am I that bad?
I cried when no one knows, whatever... But I think I really need help with another human being that is there, that I can make an eye-contact with.. or simply... Anyone that I can talk to... Gosh I sounds so emo right now...