Me too. I had this book with the test and got INTJ and forgot about it. Then a few years later I took the online test and got INTJ and I didn't like it because it made me feel cold and fake for being nice to people and trying to understand their feelings. Then, after 2 weeks feeling miserable, I took it again and got INFP. I felt it wasn't right this time. Took it again and got INFJ. I thought I am INFJ for 6 months when I learned about cognitive functions and I realized this isn't right either. So I tested again, trying to be sincere and I've got INTJ. This time I knew more and I understood that there are too many stereotypes that are not true about this type.
For now I believe I am INTJ and it's not because I want, but because this is my conclusion. I don't really care if I'm something else, but I don't really know what. I didn't want to accept I am an INTJ.
I can't be ISTJ because my dad is and it's easy to see the differences.
But I still don't understand why is this type made to be so evil. Maybe some of the videos are made by other types and how they see INTJ.
Because if I am, I could say that I'm not cold at all I just feel really awkward being emotional, not because I don't have feelings. I actually feel a lot and I care about my family, friends. I don't like hugs but I like when my mom pets my head.
It's not that I hate people, but I just feel exhausting when I have to speak with them. I don't want something bad to happen to them either.
I am logical, and I like procesess and effectiveness but I won't do bad or cross a moral line to achieve what it makes sense to me.
I don't really feel what someone else feel but I try to understand in my own way analysing and comparing and I understand and try to help.
I fall in love and it actually takes me some time to understand that I did and I don't accept my feelings until it's hard to ignore them. It's a love hate relationship. 20% of me likes it and the other 80% hates I can't focus the same way.
Cristina (not verified)says...
Me too. I had this book with the test and got INTJ and forgot about it. Then a few years later I took the online test and got INTJ and I didn't like it because it made me feel cold and fake for being nice to people and trying to understand their feelings. Then, after 2 weeks feeling miserable, I took it again and got INFP. I felt it wasn't right this time. Took it again and got INFJ. I thought I am INFJ for 6 months when I learned about cognitive functions and I realized this isn't right either. So I tested again, trying to be sincere and I've got INTJ. This time I knew more and I understood that there are too many stereotypes that are not true about this type.
For now I believe I am INTJ and it's not because I want, but because this is my conclusion. I don't really care if I'm something else, but I don't really know what. I didn't want to accept I am an INTJ.
I can't be ISTJ because my dad is and it's easy to see the differences.
But I still don't understand why is this type made to be so evil. Maybe some of the videos are made by other types and how they see INTJ.
Because if I am, I could say that I'm not cold at all I just feel really awkward being emotional, not because I don't have feelings. I actually feel a lot and I care about my family, friends. I don't like hugs but I like when my mom pets my head.
It's not that I hate people, but I just feel exhausting when I have to speak with them. I don't want something bad to happen to them either.
I am logical, and I like procesess and effectiveness but I won't do bad or cross a moral line to achieve what it makes sense to me.
I don't really feel what someone else feel but I try to understand in my own way analysing and comparing and I understand and try to help.
I fall in love and it actually takes me some time to understand that I did and I don't accept my feelings until it's hard to ignore them. It's a love hate relationship. 20% of me likes it and the other 80% hates I can't focus the same way.