As an INTJ, I have changed many things about myself. But I had to WANT to. We detest nothing more than someone thinking they get to force us to change without our informed cooperation. Unless and until you can show me something about myself that I should change and be able to explain to my satisfaction WHY, you will get nowhere with me - except probably left behind as I move on without you.
Cosmo Archibald Topper (not verified)says...
As an INTJ, I have changed many things about myself. But I had to WANT to. We detest nothing more than someone thinking they get to force us to change without our informed cooperation. Unless and until you can show me something about myself that I should change and be able to explain to my satisfaction WHY, you will get nowhere with me - except probably left behind as I move on without you.