These are all very good points! My husband is an INTP, and all of the above sound actually pretty solid- I would also add- let your INTP lead on somehting you can do together- like watching Star Trek or playing a favorite (computer or gameboard) game together- Mention that you would like to spemd time- straight up- and then let the INTP decide what you can spend time ON. They'll feel like they have a bit of control in an otherwise chaotic world of people and emotions.
C.B.says...
These are all very good points! My husband is an INTP, and all of the above sound actually pretty solid- I would also add- let your INTP lead on somehting you can do together- like watching Star Trek or playing a favorite (computer or gameboard) game together- Mention that you would like to spemd time- straight up- and then let the INTP decide what you can spend time ON. They'll feel like they have a bit of control in an otherwise chaotic world of people and emotions.