Interesting, though I have a hard time reading the ego/power/superior issue part because I DO care when I give advice. I give it as a gift, only to someone I care about because I WISH them happiness and I want them to see, through their desperate time, that life has better options to offer when you look at it from different perspectives.
To assume #ntj is giving unwanted advice to masturbate own sense of power, that is twisted and unfair as stereotypical thinking sounds. I think the writer see it through the #infj glasses without thinking that's not how we work. #Intjs do not give a damn about manipulating people. You see if one can be manipulated, then the people & I are not compatible in thinking quality. And BECAUSE talking to those kind of people is frustrating and a waste of our time then we'd better spend the rest of our life avoiding them.
This half end of the article is, however, good for us to know how to be more tactful and kind when approach people you want to help without hurting them in the process. That means, if you can actually find someone who is worth helping, though ?
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Interesting, though I have a hard time reading the ego/power/superior issue part because I DO care when I give advice. I give it as a gift, only to someone I care about because I WISH them happiness and I want them to see, through their desperate time, that life has better options to offer when you look at it from different perspectives.
To assume #ntj is giving unwanted advice to masturbate own sense of power, that is twisted and unfair as stereotypical thinking sounds. I think the writer see it through the #infj glasses without thinking that's not how we work. #Intjs do not give a damn about manipulating people. You see if one can be manipulated, then the people & I are not compatible in thinking quality. And BECAUSE talking to those kind of people is frustrating and a waste of our time then we'd better spend the rest of our life avoiding them.
This half end of the article is, however, good for us to know how to be more tactful and kind when approach people you want to help without hurting them in the process. That means, if you can actually find someone who is worth helping, though ?