ENFP and 4w3 and I found enneagram to hurt my feelings as well! I feel positive/optimistic but apparently 4's are down and envious. Then I saw a YouTube video that explained sometimes the envy will be look like this: "I can't believe so-and-so ran a marathon and then opened an orphanage in Africa and then started a non-profit to save killer whales and all I did to help others this year was ring a bell at for the Salvation Army." Ok. Maybe I see it now.
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ENFP and 4w3 and I found enneagram to hurt my feelings as well! I feel positive/optimistic but apparently 4's are down and envious. Then I saw a YouTube video that explained sometimes the envy will be look like this: "I can't believe so-and-so ran a marathon and then opened an orphanage in Africa and then started a non-profit to save killer whales and all I did to help others this year was ring a bell at for the Salvation Army." Ok. Maybe I see it now.